I just got a new cross cut full battened main and bi lateral cut genny... The main is so much larger than the old, the roach being the primary difference. It is about 1" from the back stay, just enough to pass without chafe. Even with the main sheeted in tight I don't find the boom annoying or dangerous. I rarely sit directley in the middle of the boat so maybe that is why it doesn't bother me. I'm either seated under the dodger or at the helm, when sail usually at the helm to either side depending on my tack. My point being, maybe you sail can be cut so the boom its "in your face" vs. shortening the boom which will require a recut on the sail anyway I would assume.
Just my $.02
