I completed my Webasto 3900 AirTop EVO forced air furnace install earlier this year, and so far, am completely in love with it. I went down the same analysis road as you are on now, and ruled out a DIckinson style pot-burner because of the unsightly stovepipe stack and the space it would consume in the salon, and hydronic as too expensive both in dollars and in electrical load (pump, fans, burner ignition). I would have preferred a Wallas system, but got a screaming deal for the Webasto from a truck/RV company ($450 for the furnace).
I also have a Cozy Cabin bulkhead mounted propane heater, and what I've found so far this fall is that I can get the cabin up to 70 degrees quite quickly with the furnace, and then the propane heater maintains the temp and allows the furnace to shut off for longer periods of time.
The toughest part of the install was running the ductwork, but in the end it was easier than I thought it would be. I spent quite a bit more (over the $450 cost of the furnace) on parts for the ducting, exhaust, a SureWire controller and a stainless 6 gal. day tank, but the results are working great. You can't even hear the exhaust from 4 feet away from the thru-hull thanks to the stainless muffler I added to the exhaust.
I sized the furnace a bit smaller than recommended for our boats (the 3900 is a 12,000 BTU furnace) because I am supplementing it with the Cozy Cabin. In 5 overnight stays on the boat, with 38 - 45 degree outside temps, keeping the inside temp at 68 - 70 degrees, my day tank fuel gauge is still showing 3/4 full. I turn all the heat off when we hit the bunks for the night.
The only negative so far is the clicking of the metering pump, but I am going to remount the pump with a rubber mount to minimize even that small detraction. Time will tell if the maintenance is going to be an issue. With our usage pattern (one or two nights aboard each week, vs. live-aboard), Im hoping the furnace doesn't need much. Still, I plan on doing a full servicing every 200 hrs. The SureWire board adds an hour meter to the system. Luckily, we have an excellent service center in Seattle in Sure Marine. Their website, btw, is a great source of info/parts.
Here's links to my install photos, showing ducting routing and furnace install:
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